Having a sexual partner does not equal less masturbation! For many, if not most women, the frequency at which they masturbate should not decrease when they go from being single to having a steady sexual partner or partners.
While this may be the expectation, many women actually find they masturbate much more when they have a sexual partner or partners, because having a sexual partner or partners makes them feel far more sexual and increases their desire for sexual pleasure and orgasms.
Having a sexual partner or partners does not mean masturbation is no longer fulfilling or there are not times when you want to enjoy some solitary sexual personal pleasures. When you have a sexual partner or partners, they do not need to be the sole means of you having an orgasm, or a hundred orgasms, and the sexual partner or partners do not need to be present during all your orgasms either! It is simply not necessary or beneficial if they are. You are not denying your sexual partner or partners anything by having lots and lots of orgasms alone!
Masturbation is absolutely not a sexual activity you engage in only when you are alone! It is also a means of "sharing sexual pleasure" with your partner or partners!
Many people, both men and women, enjoy watching their sexual partner or partners give himself or herself sexual pleasure, and thus get intense emotionally sexual pleasure from sharing this activity with their sexual partner or partners!
For both men and women, a result of watching your sexual partner or partners masturbate, allows you to develop a much better understanding of what forms and techniques of sexual stimulation they find most enjoyable. Knowing your sexual partner or partners can experience awesome orgasms, without your involvement, helps to reduce some of the pressure you may feel for performance, and allows sex to be more enjoyable for everyone involved, in whatever combination.
Couples, especially those in their legal teens, who do not wish to risk pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases, will find masturbating together allows them to experience and share sexual pleasure without those risks. Even during pregnancy, both partners can masturbate together when vaginal intercourse may no longer be possible or in certain situations, desired. One thing that is fact, masturbation should always be considered a normal and healthy part of ANY partnered sex! :)
Knowing how to masturbate to orgasm is important to every woman! This is because... it is often necessary, for we girls, to stimulate our clits during intercourse... if we desire to have really good, strong types of orgasms! Many sexual positions with men, and with other women as well, do not provide a woman's sexual partner or partners, with easy or comfortable access to her pussy. A woman's sexual partner or partners, for example... may be facing in the wrong direction, or their arms cannot reach her pussy.
It is simply easier for the woman to provide the correct and easiest sexual stimulation to her pussy! It is much easier for a woman to stimulate her own clit, because there is no need for verbal communication with her sexual partner or partners and she can provide herself with the ideal stimulation she feels and KNOWS, she requires each and every time!
A woman stimulating her own clit should NOT be taken as an indication that her sexual partner or partners, are not good and or caring lovers, or that they have poor sexual skills. What it does actually means is, YOU, the female you... has taken responsibility for your own sexual pleasure! YOU are In Charge and In Control!!
So, when someone says to you... "women are Less Sexual than Men" Just laugh at them and go your merry way! While it is extremely untrue, the majority of people believe women are less sexual than men. What a true... crock of poo!!!
Society might lead you to believe women think about sex, and desire sex much less often than men, but DON'T you believe that non-sense!!! Society frequently creates outcasts of women who are openly sexual.
This sadly results in women believing they should not have strong sexual feelings and desires. Again, another giant pot of poo!! Unfortunately, many women are ashamed to admit they have a strong sex drive, that they become HORNY or are HORNY all the time!
This results in so many women introverting and denying their own sexual feelings and desires. This needs to be stopped and stopped NOW! Girls, DO NOT BELIEVE, or buy into this complete crock of crap!!!
While a woman's desire for sex may change with time, as the result of say hormonal influences, women are just as sexual if not more than men! If a woman accepts that she is as equally sexual as any man, she is more likely to feel comfortable with her natural desire to masturbate and the frequency at which she does masturbate!! So girls, leave off the panties, get comfy, spread your legs and begin masturbating! It's No Thong Thursday!! Lickity Kisses...
Khristy
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